The Romance of the Road Trip
Wednesday, March 17th, 2010
It doesn’t have to be your honeymoon, an anniversary, birthday or any other occasion to take a romantic road trip together. In fact, sometimes its better this way; just the two of you taking off at the spur of the moment. However, just like any other trip, your romantic road trip should involve at least a little advance planning to insure you will get the most out of it. Here are a few planning tips.
The first rule is to be sure you both have input on the plans. The worst thing you can do is make all the planning decisions alone. If anything goes wrong, however slight, it will be strictly your fault.
Keep your clothing consistent. A sure path to conflict is if he has all jeans packed and she has packed nothing but dresses.
Keep you trips short, at least in the beginning. A weekend trip is a great way to start. This way you make sure it actually is something that you like doing together. Work on understanding your mutual likes and dislikes before you commit to a major journey.
Be careful not to plan over aggressively. Don’t plan to drive too far and see too much. It’s supposed to be a relaxing interlude, not a race.
By all means split up the tasks, but do have an idea who will do what. You won’t need a rigid work schedule but rather an informal plan that defines the various roles at the various times.
Think about the driving responsibilities. It is, after all, the biggest single task on the trip. If it will fall mostly to one of you, make provisions for extra rest time for the driver.
Remember that, when it comes to break stops or restaurant and hotel choices, both of you have an equal say. Don’t make your schedule so rigid that you cannot stop for a break when one of you wants one. Again, it’s a romantic getaway.
If you are driving, don’t expect the other to be constantly attentive. Bring along games, music or even a portable DVD player. Even on the road, everyone needs his or her own space once in a while.
Don’t forget to bring a camera and take lots of pictures. A digital camera is best because you get the fun of looking at, and talking about, your shots right away. Don’t worry if you are not a great photographer.
Be flexible. Don’t be afraid to alter your plans and schedules. If you see a road sign advertising something of interest, check it out. It is a road trip, after all. You’ll be amazed at all there is to see and do.
Why not try a romantic road trip? You will find, with just a little care and planning, that it can be a rewarding journey.